new game plan

okay so i thought maybe i should try a new approach to the big sisters attitude! so we made a little behavior chart discussed it with her. she gets points when she does what she's told and i get points when she argues or whines. and then there are rewards or consequences depending on who has the most points at the end of the day.
it started out a little shaky i just wonder if its' too long term for her but she seemed to understand. the little genius that she is.
at one point today she said "mom tell me to do something" just because she wanted to rack up her points.
so i fudged a little today and let her win. i don't know about tomorrow!!